dating a girl 10 years younger - Dating my ex husband

Emotions are likely to be running too high and wounds might still be fresh.

Give yourself, and your ex, time to heal and evaluate.

I know they both want a holiday, they are kids of course they want to go!

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From "he just doesn't get me" to "we're too different" to "why did we stay together THAT long," women tend to overanalyze past relationships.

However, the one thing that seems to be the unwritten rule among us is that we would never even consider dating our friends' exes. But now I realize this rule really needs more thought, because I believe there are two factors to consider before answering my girlfriend's Facebook question.

To keep things on a positive note, follow certain guidelines.

If you've been divorced for just a few months, it's probably too soon to consider getting back together with your ex-husband.

After all, something drew you to him in the first place and in addition now you have memories, history and possibly children together.

Dating your ex can be a positive thing or a nightmare.

I’m not saying you aren’t a good person or a good friend, but you knew. But, you protected yourself because you couldn’t bear the thought. That is immensely hurtful, devastating and frustrating, but if you think about it, what have you really lost? This girl shows really unethical and bad character. I later realized what a waste it was making myself nuts over it.

And then you tried to fix her marriage so that it wouldn’t happen. My advice to you is, try not to focus on THEM, but instead on YOU and your kids.

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